On the TV show What Not To Wear, unsuspecting fashion failures are nominated by friends to receive clothing advice and a shopping spree, in hopes of changing their image. The program usually follows the same format: initial surprise and a little dismay at being told they dress poorly enough that their friends would stage an intervention, and excitement at the prospect of $5,000 to spend in Manhattan.
Then they get to New York, wardrobe in tow, only to be told that everything they own is awful, as they watch it all get unceremoniously thrown in the trash. Their ego is bruised. They’re left feeling either unsure of themselves, having been so torn down, or angry that these self-professed fashionistas have the nerve to find fault with their perfectly good clothing.
In the end, after just a few days, nearly every victim is converted to the ideas initially thrust upon them. All it really took was for them to let go of old habits and accept the idea that subtle changes can make a big difference - even in something as superficial as wardrobe.
Change is hard. It can be painful letting go of familiar habits and routines that are not best suited to us, but there is no seasonal whim directing the appropriateness of good behavior. Honesty, kindness, patience, and serving others are always in style. When I find it difficult to incorporate such desirable traits, maybe it would help to take a hard look at those ragged, unflattering habits that might be holding me back. If I can free myself from such ugly old garments as pride and faultfinding, I may discover room in my life for something better - for charity and compassion, for a little more love in my heart, and that looks good on everyone!
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